"A lot of what attracts me is a guy’s mind and humour and talent. I need to get to know all those things before I fall for someone. I’m not a one-night-stand kind of girl. I’m a relationship girl. I’m progressive in some ways, old-fashioned in others. I like it when guys hold the door open and are sweet and thoughtful... A man in a suit looking put together and dapper is very attractive, but I also kind of like the I-just-rolled-out-of-bed, a-little-bit-of-scruff, effortless, not-trying-hard-but-still-sexy guy." Actress Nina Dobrev on the guys she's looking for to mend her broken heart after splitting from her The Vampire Diaries co-star Ian Somerhalder earlier this year (13).