Girls, the show that’s both beloved and hated for the way it portrays millennial life in Brooklyn, New York, has wrapped after filming six seasons. We’re still waiting for the final season to air on HBO, but if it’s anything like Lena Dunham’s emotional posts from set, we’re not going to be able to handle it.
Late Friday night, Dunham posted a series of emotional Instagrams about the last day ever on set. Prepare to ugly cry.
On Thursday, Lena posted a teary-eyed message about wrapping every character but Hannah.
But on Friday morning, it was officially over.
She posted a bittersweet goodbye to her production team.
And here is where we all ugly cry — the emotional, final Instagram post about filming.
Girls Goodbye (1 of 3) It’s 2 am on Friday morning and we just finished shooting Girls. Forever. No insert shots of cell phones or exteriors to grab. We’re not missing a quick shot of Shosh marching down a Soho street. We’re finished. We did it all. Jenni called that final cut, I dropped my costume on our van floors (sorry Kristen, sorry I never hang my damned costume) and we got into our vans to head home for the last time. To say I don't enjoy goodbyes is an understatement. But, as a wise woman once told me, "relish it. We so rarely get to choose our goodbyes." She's right. And we got to choose this one. But that doesn't mean it's easy– I know I'm not alone in the Girls family when I say this is the end of the largest and most potent chapter of my life so far. Before Girls I had zero identity, zero self-love and an urgent sense of untapped creative desire that kept me up and sweating at night in other people's beds, wondering why vague sexual affirmation wasn’t enough to make me feel human. I had hardly an inkling of the responsibility we take on when we tell stories, or of the power words can have, but what I had- as an obsessed fan of shows from Girlfriends to Felicity to Ally McBeal- was the audacity to think that people might want to see women like my friends and me (broken, imperfect, angry) on television. When we shot our pilot six years ago, I never dreamed that I could be so fulfilled by the process of art-making, of collaboration, of honest expression. And so through this show I developed an identity, gained a new kind of family and began my life in earnest. It's an embarrassment of riches. There are too many essential personnel to name here, and the messages I have for them are far too intimate for this modern venue, but I trust I've made it clear who you are and what you mean to me. If I haven't, please feel free to demand explanations.
Seriously, Lena has a way with goodbyes.
Girls Goodbye (3 of 3) To the fans, you have blown our minds. You have made a big scary world seem small and intimate and I see blessings and safe havens everywhere because of the way you've normalized these experiences, the moments of being female that feel dark and unruly, that hurt like a gash. You've made me believe there was a place for the strange girls and the ones who don't know how to love quite yet. And I know you'll give the same warm reception to all the radical & essential female voices coming to TV in the near future. Because we are just at the the beginning of a golden era in which every woman– no matter her race, religion, body-type, or the gender assigned to her at birth– can tell her story and have it heard and recognized for its essential her-ness. Let's all make sure of that together, okay? We must. To the critics: you pushed us to grow and we did, even when the child in me wanted to stamp my feet and stand my ground. There is no greater gift than evolution. Thank you for that. To the cast & crew, the writers and producers, you will always be my comrades and I'd drop anything to be there for you at any time in your life. Thank you for accepting me, for creating a world of acceptance and for holding me through some of the toughest times I've known. Thank you for being fierce and creative. Thank you for putting up with my tits for six years, even when they got so, so boring. Thank you for making me feel like I was at the center of a trampoline of good will. To the men of Girls, both cast and crew, thank you for restoring my faith in the beauty and sensitivity that masculine strength can provide. Thank you for healing my fear and my heart. And the the women of girls, you are as bad as they come. Jenni and Judd: 🌝🌝🌝 Ilene and Gina 👊👊👊 Allison, Jem, Zosia 👯👯♂️ It's going to take awhile to understand the heartbreak of saying goodbye to these characters, these collaborators and this life. I barely remember another one. So… all my love. Yes, love is all I have for every single one of you (even the 16 year old who keeps telling me to blow him in the comments section, though I do feel concerned he's not being parented closely enuf.
As sad as it is, Lena lets us know we’ll have until January to start saying goodbye ourselves.
Even Allison Williams, who wrapped her scenes earlier in the week, stayed with her friends until the very end.
Last pic of the night- @aw stayed until the bitter end like the queen she is. This is what 45 minutes of sobbing followed by me forcing a selfie on Allison looks like. #cryingselfie #crelfie #girlswillbegirls Goodnight. I love you all. I love the smell of the fall air. I love the rustling leaves, the city lights coming into view as I ride home and I really fucking love absolutely everyone I hugged tonight.
Despite Lena’s indie success with Tiny Furniture, Girls is what turned her into a household name. The series was her first foray into television, and the show was so closely based on her life that ending it must feel like cutting off a limb.
Even though show was highly criticized, it did break boundaries when it came to exploring risque topics like sex, body image and femininity. Lena was never afraid to show off her less-than-Hollywood-perfect body because her body most closely resembles that of the rest of us. Girls helped normalize being normal. It didn’t live up to Hollywood’s expectations of beauty or what a woman should be. In fact, the show focused on a group of very selfish, immature millennial women. To be able to write unlikable characters and have them grow in to warm, thoughtful adults over six seasons is a major feat.
Lena used her time with the series to unabashedly showcase the growing pains and selfishness that often comes along with being in your early 20’s. To many, it was the perfect representation of young adulthood and a truly accurate coming-of-age story that we got to watch (and still get to until the sixth season airs) unfold in real time, over five years. Many of us, like Lena and her characters, have grown up too.
It definitely feels like Girls has lived as long as it was supposed to, but it will be sorely missed!
Season six of the HBO series airs in January 2017, so make sure you’re stocked up on Kleenex by then.